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Q: My partner has told me she has some pretty crazy fantasies about bondage and being choked and stuff, and I'm really not comfortable with that. I don't know how to handle it. Any ideas?

Hailey says...
I've said it before, but I'll say it again: Fantasies are not our real-life wishes. Fantasies are the things we imagine doing that we may never actually do in our waking moments. They're titillating because they take us places we might not go normally, and they allow us to go to the very edge of our comfort level and beyond. And if you're not down with your partner's fantasies, then they can just stay hers, happily existing as a saucy little part of her imagination. She shared them with you as an act of trust: Don't betray that trust by judging them.

Hailey Dai is a young woman living in a committed relationship. She quite enjoys sex. Click here to send her your questions.