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Q: I hate it when, before sex, my guy says, “I’m going to give you an orgasm.” It puts way too much pressure on me having one and having to fake it instead. How do I get him to back off?

Hailey says...
Tell him. But tell him when your clothes are on and the lights are on, and not when you’re about to have sex, and not when you are basking in the afterglow. Don’t accuse him of doing anything wrong, but explain to him how it makes you feel. We live in an orgasm-obsessed world and we would do well to remember that an orgasm is not the be-all and end-all of sexual activity.

Hailey Dai is a young woman living in a committed relationship. She quite enjoys sex. Click here to send her your questions.