Derek says…
When you figure out where she went, please let me know so I can search there too.

Angela says…
She's hiding in the closet. I'm curious—are you the same person she married? In our twenties, we generally have less to be stressed about. As we get older and have kids, we struggle with work–life balance. Have you asked yourself what she's stressed about? Are there ways to help alleviate that stress? Remember: Marriage is a partnership. You have to help find that girl—after all, you were there when she went into hiding, no?

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