Derek says…
Whisk her away on a weekend getaway to a lovely resort with a spa, where the vintage Pinot flows freely. "Oh, there's a golf course here? Honey, I had no idea! No, those aren't my clubs..."

Angela says…
If you can afford a short getaway, fly to a nearby city like Boston, Seattle or Quebec City. (We Smugs went to NYC for our first anniversary!) If you're looking for something a little more wallet-friendly, order a homemade photo album from a DIY online store like Blurb. For as little as $12, you can record your first year together and make a memorable keepsake. Another option would be to use your anniversary as an excuse to acquire your first piece of real art. Spend a few Saturdays perusing galleries in search of something you both love.

Happily married university sweethearts Angela and Derek live in a leafy neighborhood with their two super-cute kids and cranky but lovable cat, Fred. They are the envy of all their friends.

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